I'm kind of in the same boat. I actually tried a couple days ago to go with a friend to a club sober and honestly it wasn't bad at all, aside from my friend getting belligerent. I learned two things from that night; 1. Hanging out with drunks suck (borderline friendship ending night) 2. Not all clubs/lounges are filled to hilt with people getting drunk. You just need to be a lot more selective of the places you goto, UNLESS a club creates too much of a temptation for you. For me it didnt, but I could definitely understand how it would for someone.