Last night I wanted a couple of glasses of wine while we watched the Bronco game and he said no because I had wine the night before. He also told me that anyone who drinks ends up over doing it sometimes and that nothing I could do would make him leave me.
This makes me cringe, I apologize for being so forthright. My significant other also tried to help me by counting my beers. He would remind me with each beer how many I had drank and how many I had left. Ugh. Huge and major resentment poured into our relationship even though I was all for it in the beginning. It soon became very old. Then, I just found crafty ways to insert more alcohol without him knowing.
The statement "anyone who drinks ends up over doing it sometimes" tells me that he really doesn't know you yet.
You have to do what you have to do. I wish you the best and you know where we are.