Hi Sueski,
That one about 'its all about your feelings my feelings don't count' gets me every time. I am getting better, still get hooked sometimes but sometimes I repeat in my head while he is ranting 'he is behaving badly, I don't have to'. The other one that someone posted here was their counsellor asked what colour is your refrigerator and they replied white and the counsellor said if I tell you it's blue does that make it blue? I found myself in one argument where he was accusing me of something i didn't do screaming at RA 'MY Refrigerator isn't blue' it stopped him in his tracks and I roared laughing at myself (not suggesting it as advice just a funny aside!).
