Sueski--old habits die hard--trust me, I know, because, while still living with my A's I stupidly bit the hook so many times---before I understood what was really happening!!
They know where your hot spots are--better than you! They can say--and, often do, the most cruel and abusive things. The pain that they cause does not matter to them with their addled minds.
You should'nt have to live with this kind of crap! Everyone deserves to live a peaceful life.
dandylion