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Old 09-06-2013, 12:14 AM
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ReadyAtLast
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That's your AV talking thinking most singles are in bars I also used to meet all my exes in bars purely because I never really spent time anywhere else so law of averages says I would.

In sobriety when you'redoing a whole host ofsober activities you'll have loads of opportunities to meet single, sober people. The gym, tennis club, church,community activities, work, volunteer work, heck even the supermarket at 7.00 in the morning when all the drunken people are in bed

I know you're early on in sobriety so maybe haven't started new activities yet but you will. Give it time. I don't agreewith the 1 year rule but do think time needed on us as individulas to grow and feel comfortable in sobriety before even thinking of another relationship. I know I've rushed from one to another,jumped in too soon and it's ended in disaster. All drink related
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