Originally Posted by
wolfpackfan45 
So sorry. The alcohol was talking, if that helps to make it any better. You're not alone. They can be absolutely brutal with their words and actions.
Personally I have struggled a lot with this ^^^^.
I don't mean you should believe or take to heart anything he says while drunk. But last time I checked, alcohol can't talk. Just sayin'.
Another thing I realized at some point with my XABF was that he would have NEVER tolerated it, or ever let me forget it, if crap like that was coming out of MY mouth, drunk or not. (I never drink, BTW.)
Sorry you have to deal with this.
SQ