ImperfectlyMe,
You said you have two kids and a sick husband.I can realate to that.My two older children were taken from me in 95.Im now 41yrs old.Back then then I was on cocaine.I then had a daughter in 98 and everything seemed to be under control.My ast child I had in 04 and he was born with cocaine in his system.I got off of the drugs for a while,then I hurt my back really bad.The docs got me on perc 30mg.I was on those for 3 yrs.Then turned to heroine.My husband had carpral tunne surgery on both arms and same thing happened to him.We lost our home and jobs and control of our lives.My father saw that there was a problem and took temporary custody of my two youngest kids.I got cean on my own but my husband used heroine more than I did so his detox will be worse.Im trying to help him.But now my oldest daughter is putting this jealously trip on me that I didn't fight for her like Im doing for my youngest kids.I don't know what to do.Any advise would help.