[QUOTE= He has a very good way of turing things around on me and making it seem as though it is my fault and I don't understand why.[/QUOTE]
It's hard to admit when we are doing wrong and being a total jerk. It's MUCH easier to blame someone else and call her all the names we know really apply to ourselves.
Also glad to read you aren't exposing your daughter to the abuse, but want you to know that you deserve the same protection. You have the right to be happy, healthy, and safe, just like she does. If it's not good enough for your precious, beloved daughter, it's NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU EITHER.