Originally Posted by
hisimage48 
I feel like whenever my ah starts feeling me gain a bit if strength this is what happens.
Yes, yes, and yes to this.
They want to keep drinking no matter what, and it's a game of manipulation and insincerity.
When they want something, they elevate you. Then it's back to being selfish* and when they sense they have pushed you too far and you gain some resolve, they do it again.
*they were always being selfish...when they are elevating you, it's to get what they want. It's all about them.
I'm sorry you are going through this. Hugs to you.
Peace.