I'm confused, I think? I will do his laundry, get his coffee, keep the house clean, make meals. Isn't this just being nice? He doesn't demand it in fact he appreciates it. He will cook every so often too. He tends to the bills & works from home. He's a functioning A
I never buy his alcohol, if he wants it he has to go get it and he does.
Is this part of enabling my AH? I've moved into the guest room today but will continue to be civil. I told him I couldn't continue the roller coaster ride & moved my things to the guest room so I could have some peace. My next step is to re-locate once I get my ducks in a row.
Over all though I intend to be polite. He made another promise but I told him I don't trust him (he was surprised by that) So I'm just continuing to moved forward for me & hope to be done with this dysfunction soon. I just couldn't share the same room with him any longer.
If I continue to do those for-lack-of-a-better-word "wifey" things am I sending the wrong message?