Originally Posted by
Florence 
Maybe you don't trust him because he's been untrustworthy! Give him the dignity of
EARNING that trust back. If he does, he does. Don't hold grudges, but don't go handing your heart out to jerkwads either.
YES! I so agree with this...its been a untrusting relationship when it comes to his alcoholic character...
i just had an interesting talk about the Merry Go ROUND>..i said to my friend before detaching...."we have been here before this merry go round, i have brought 'this' up before..twice actually'.... and i know we have, because its journalled (dates and witnesses also..weird)....