Originally Posted by
lizatola 
And, quite frankly, it's rocking my boat a bit because I was perfectly happy detaching, working my program, and taking care of myself and my son.
Exactly. Just keep doing that. ^^^
Why should 3 or 4 weeks of "good behavior" change anything? Real change takes time. A lot of time. Years. Stay on your path. Pay attention. But don't make the mistake of forsaking yourself just because he's being temporarily nice. If it's real, it will continue--regardless of what you do. I agree with Hammer. There is no conflict here. You can be grateful for peace and good behavior without abandoning your recovery.
L