Welcome to SR. Good of you to come to the decision to quit so early. Many of us, like me, knew in our 20s we had a drinking problem but waited many years to quit.
Originally Posted by
goodbyeevan 
...my gram is over 25 years sober and she also beat cigs and I'm going to make her my role model.
Ask your gram what she did to get sober and follow her advice. Is your boyfriend going to join you in sobriety?