I'm so sorry to hear about your kitten. How terribly tragic for you and your kids. It's never easy losing a pet especially when its so unexpected. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers tonight. I am so happy to hear you have learned new tools to cope. I know for me it works across all aspects of my life and I even find myself teaching my kids the same tools to use when they are upset. You are being a great role model for your kids. Give them an extra hug tonight.