Debra,
The only advise I can give is to let his recovery go and concentrate on your own. Whether he drinks or not is not within your control. Take some time to decide what this means to you. What you will or will not live with and make a plan based on that.
How are you paying for his alcohol? Are you giving him money? Are you bringing it home with the groceries? You can stop giving him money if he is not working and you are. If he is drinking and he has an extra buck or two he will use it to buy alcohol or he will use the debit or credit cards if he needs to. You can have some control over you finances but not what he does with what he access to.
Good luck with your meeting!!
Keep posting!
JT