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Hi, I'm a newcomer to this group. My husband is an alcoholic for 15 years. He has just went through his 3rd detox--2 wks ago--embraced AA--and been going to meetings every day. Only thing is that I discovered that he's being drinking--and the ensuing lies about it--hasn't told his group, hasn't told me, still won't give straight answers about it--you know the procedure there.
Ok, I'm going to my first face to face alanon meeting next Wednesday. Meanwhile, I'm not sure what I should be doing. He isn't working and essentially I am paying for his alcohol. What do I do now? I've told him that I need to know he is serious about this recovery stuff and if he's not -- well I'm not going back to this life.
Help.
Debra