Originally Posted by
TRAD 
My problem is that I keep getting pulled into the text/email communications, too. I had been trying to remain loving and supportive and not give him a reason to drink. well, I think I just figured out that he's drinking without me giving him a reason so WTH. I responded yesterday with no more text/email games. Please go get well. xoxo
There's the story of the love of my life and the best relationship ever destroyed in a year.
Thanks for letting me share.
Traci
Hi Traci,
Sorry you're going through all this, it can be so hard to be in love with an alcoholic, I know, I am too.
It doesn't matter if you give him a reason to drink or not, because it really has nothing to do with you. I'm sure you've heard of the 3 Cs by now? I didn't cause it, I can't control it, I can't cure it. It really is the truth.
Although I haven't done it, I've read of many people doing a No Contact with their A's. Even change your number if you have too.
Maybe worth a try?
I wish you both all the best.