My older sister says the same thing, but she has never gotten to the point of actually talking about it, and still blames me and my sibs for my dad beating us. And then tells us to get over it. Well we have but it still comes up from time to time. You can't just ignore how you were raised and what hell you lived through. That's la la land thinking.
Have you read through our stickies above? If you have you will see in no time quick, that you are not alone and not crazy and that yes, we all do get it.
Do what you need to do for yourself, don't ask your friends who don't understand our lives.