Detachment is something that I'm struggling with. I just keep reminding myself that his problems are just that, I have my own to deal with.
-Noticed he is out of coffee this morning and have no intention of picking up more. (I don't drink coffee)
-I've stopped worrying about him blowing off tomorrow's work due to being drunk today. Not my problem if he loses another customer.
-He told me last week he didn't have enough money in his account to cover his insurance payment hinting that he wanted me to cover it for him. I didn't!
-If I come home to him drunk/sleeping on the couch, I make dinner for me and let him fend for himself when he wakes up.
It actually feels good to do these things.