Yes it does mean you and kids live in comfort and he lives in the hole he dug.
The moment you save the alcoholic thats the moment you tell them its ok.
ITS NOT THOUGH. Hes sick ....hes getting sicker but you cant force someone to go to the doctor and you can't be one yourself.
I see alot of accepting of responsibility of his alcoholism but ask yourself why you are.
Your husband has had opportunity after opportunity. He couldnt even do aa.
So he says he wants help but by doing what?
It doesnt sound like he does. It sounds like he wants YOU to just believe he does.
Think about it.