I know I doesn't get through they never do. Only when your talkin their language "Ill flush every bag if u don't stop talkin" then they listen either way....it feels kinda good to let the resentment and anger steer the path. Ya know non addict men are assholes a month or so before the big breakup. It's so they don't have to feel bad and you can cry for a day and then hate him forever. Being a bitch is a good idea too!