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Old 08-22-2013, 04:46 PM
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Threshold
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Only you know your own pattern when it comes to relationships. Some people get in over their head way quick and others seem to be able to pace themselves and create healthy boundaries.

I think it's worth asking yourself what you want as far as relationships right now..companionship, sex, prelude to something long term...etc etc, and make sure the person you date is on the same page. Early recovery is a lousy time to have to start trying to meet someone's agenda for us, or end up taking care of someone else when we are just learning to walk again ourselves.
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