Originally Posted by
fml23 
I know lots of ppl would say my AH checked out and gave up. But that's a cop out. There probably r ppl out there who would handle my H differently. I have my flaws and short comings and with or without booze there r issues in my marriage. But I am not happy and I am making a choice to cut my losses and try something new. And it's so scary!!
fm123, no you're not copping out and yes you have flaws we all do but it's the alcohol that is the problem and the only one who can take care of that problem is your husband. The best thing you can do is take care of yourself and your child and let you husband take care of himself.