Originally Posted by
ZoeM 
Pamel. I am wondering if you've been able to talk to someone about your friend and what happened to him? Sometimes, when things like that happen, we tend to blame ourselves and emulate the behaviour as a result
If your friend was determined to do that, there is nothing anyone could have done
Do you think the tragedy of what happened, is what is causing your relapses?
It's just a thought x
Thanks
ZoeM.
There is never a cause if one is securely placed in sobriety. All I can claim is that I have been through a rough week with the bf's grandchild. Not an excuse, but it has been hard to get to meetings with a breathalyzer in the car. (The bf doesn't want this known). Personally, I would rather "out" this with his family (mine knows) but he likes to maintain fiction.