I have been thinking about the passive aggressive thing. I think of passive aggressive more like the person who has a problem with me but can't tell me directly so then acts all weird about it...So does me avoiding someone's rude advances classify as passive aggressive even when the person is being rude?
So if I had said something to her directly in response to her behavior I would have had to deal with her trying to bargain with me, walking away or go off on me. How do you handle it past that point?
Either way I think I would feel bad because I thought I hurt someone's feelings. I'm going to try to be more upfront when I communicate next time so from my end of things I feel like I have spoken my peace.