Oh Lexie,
I was in touch with the UK national centre for domestic violence who told me that nothing he has done qualifies for a non molestation order. I swear I nearly cried. I have been keeping a diary solidly since May and he has done some disgusting things. They told me to ring social services......I've told him he can't park on the driveway and he sent me a long self pitying text to say what a great guy he is and nobody's perfect...including me.
I said exactly what you said you'd say/ Gald your going to get sober , your children will benefit. No answer....he's probably crying on the phone to his mother. He just gave her £1500 to buy a new car after she crashed her car with our son in it on the day I was discussing earlier. Honestly I kept my temper through so much that day...no apologies yet x