My husband promised he wouldn't drink again. As far as I can figure, that promise lasted between a week and a half and three weeks. Nice try. It hasn't been awful, like it was, but it proves that he's an alcoholic. At least it does to me! To him, not so much.
People here and in RL told me not to go back so soon (3 days), and they were right. It hasn't been disastrous, but it's not a bad idea for you give it some more time. All I have to worry about is me and the cat; you've got the 1.4 kids.
Take care.