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Old 08-17-2013, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by LexieCat View Post
It may or may not be progress. As you may have noticed, alcoholics sometimes say things to please others, but having HUGE mental reservations in the meantime. If those reservations are harbored, sooner or later they tend to win out over whatever acknowledgements of a problem were made. Not to be totally negative here, but that is the reality.
Well I'm sure no one is surprised that I'm reporting back that he's drinking again. Was drunk last night when I went to his place. When he wouldn't talk about it I left and went back home.

Talked to him again this morning around 9:30. Still sounded a little drunk to me. I am supposed to go over at noon, which means he has 2.5 hours to sober up, or get more drunk. Let's see which one he chooses. Past practice says the latter. I may be back home by 12:30.

Myself, I am on my 28th day without a drink. Will not my disappointment with his situation impact my own decision to better my own life. It's just sad because he was doing really well until this week.
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