Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you been through the whole ordeal but made it out ok? I keep reading about how people have made it through a difficult relationship and it seems most of the stories end with leaving the toxic relationship.
I understand how much healthier you can be but it saddens me that a lot of couples seem like they don't have these success stories with the relationships still intact. I'm feeling less and less hopeful about my future together with my wife who i still very much love. I would very much like to survive this together but as many mentioned she has to want it for herself and i'm not sure she does. The more i read the stories here and other forums i'm feeling a sense of doom about our relationship.