Thank you. Yes, I realize there is no quick fix. She has threatened suicide before, ended up in the emergency room but it seems that whole incident was glossed over. Right now she has turned last nights incident into an issue of her privacy. I did not even press on her drinking issue but she reacts with extreme anger that I give her no privacy which is not true at all. She is upset because i went into her room and found the open bottle of pills (which i took away) and read her suicide note, saying that was an invasion of her privacy. Its just so infuriating that she would twist this around on me, avoiding the fact that she's hiding alcohol in her office and that I caught her lying about drinking last night. I've been trying really hard to study and set up interviews for a new job. Actually came home yesterday from an interview and then I have to deal with her. So sick of it.