Youve been changing the things you can, and you've started with the thing you need to do more than any and the other things .
You may need big changes in your home life, or you may just need them more on your terms! Your putting yourself in a better place to make changes for good.
You've explained your position perfectly and there is no one here that would not want you to have them but the is no magic wand and it takes great strength and you show you are capable of that by the things you are doing for yourself and your daughter.
Keep on with sobriety and get stronger, you are capable .
Love John.