Originally Posted by
PandaPanda 
I dont drink until I blackout, never drive drunk, no job or family problems from drinking.
Unfortunately, my wife refuses to talk to me about this and is adamant that her drinking is "normal".
A guy at my first meeting told me too add the word yet too all the noted things that havent happened. i chuckled until they came true very quickly.
and she thinks its normal beacause she is comparing to you and perhaps other people that drink like you.
perhaps both should go to a meeting and see what happens.
I commend you for getting this far and finally recognizing that you may have a problem