Myfreedom, LISTEN TO YOUR DAUGHTER. Out of the mouth of babes, right?
You are doing this for her, also. (aren't you).
It is natural to have apprehension of the future--of the unknown. But, please don't let this destroy your future.
He doesn't sound remotely ready for sobriety, at this time. You will regret it if you turn back to the same ole, same ole.
dandylion