Thank you. And I know you are right. What does it matter, it is still bad behavior. Why do I allow him to get into my head and make me question myself. In my head I know the things he says are not true. But when he says them they cut to the bone and crush my heart and spirit. I hate that we all are having to deal with the A's in our lives that make us question all sane and rational judgement and actions. I want out of this vicious cycle.