I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be sensitive to whatever I write, because he's already shown me alcohol is his priority. I mistakingly keep imagining a rational, emotionally healthy person reading the letter and giving it thought.
On our side of things we are also addicted to them, to the fantasy to the dream since we had such a strong emotional/brainy connection.
My X made it easy for me I guess, she jumped into someone already and is already making stupid mistakes. At least I shouldn't have to worry about being stalked and having her try to reconnect.