My xagf made me feel like I was more attractive because someone as attractive as her would pick me and call me handsome and what not. I have learned alcoholics are easy to get and sometimes even force themselves on you!
Anyhow, regardless of what your X said, how the break up (divorce) went or how sad you feel, go to a place that you feel is neutral ground?
My neutral ground for example is this girl who it didn't work out with right before my X, she thought I was really good looking and grounded. Works for me! ymmv At the end of the day I know i'm not ugly and if others think so? F EM!
=) hang in there.