Been dealing with AH for 20 years. Dated for 5 before married. He was so kind, funny, just generally my best friend. Trusted him with my life, in fact, quit my job to stay home with the kids 16 years ago. Has progressed to where there is no trust. Money always missing from account. Doesn't come home for days at a time. I am feeling so depressed and sad, but i did manage to apply for 6 jobs yesterday. I am hoping this is the way to establish some sort of stability for our family, but I am worried about how much change it will be for the kids. Sorry this is so long. Is this the right first step to find my way?
