Originally Posted by ZenMe

So I went to a concert last night with a friend who just broke up with an emotionally abusive borderline personality disorder guy. Her pattern (dad, xh and son) all have this problem. She says she didn't see it in her x until they actually started dating.

So basically she says "should i tell the next girl he dates about his problem?" I'm like, they are grownups let them fend for themselves. At some point in my relationship I thought about telling my Xs family about her alcoholism since she probably lied about telling them, not to mention they are all huge drinkers. I didn't see a good reason to.

So what do you guys think? Should she be trying to save the next victim?