I've been reading quite a few posts with girls having strong feelings for these addicts they have only been speaking to for a short time. I want you girls to know that addict or not, you cannot change a man. Maybe you think you can help him, save him or he'll fall so in love with you that he'll change. It doesn't work like that. In my eyes I see you girls setting yourself up for failure. But that's from the outside looking in. Stop sitting around waiting to see if these guys are gonna change for you to be with them. You're young and probably beautiful! Work on yourself so that you attract a man who deserves you. Someone with a job, with goals, not guys already struggling with drugs. You girls deserve more.