Florence,
I know it appears I was trying to control what doctors did. From my view point, I wasn't. I just wanted his doctor here to be able to talk with the doctors there. My ah couldn't contact the doctor here or facilitate it from in there. I just was telling them my thoughts more on a general level. But I can see what you are saying.
I have come such a far way. Before I would have called the facility and arranged a family session if they didn't call. But now I just let it go. I have not called them at all again after the doctor thing. I was just curious because I thought the family counseling was the norm.