I can't sleep so I am writing here!
4myboys and jazzman,
I did benefit from the time off! Cycled 180km around the lake with friends one day. And the evening gathering that was actually a double date was a surprise and kind of tricky. The fellow is a nice guy. But this is my team. Anything between me and another member is by definition going to be treated seriously. People here don't date casually. So when someone has intentions, I have to be very careful to not appear anything but friendly unless I am sure I am interested in them and I don't mind the others knowing.
Casually dating would be so much more fun. I love my team and I don't want to hurt anyone but getting into something and then backing out.