Originally Posted by
earthsteps 
Both.
I am a stay at home mom. He makes the money, he shouldn't have to deal with ants.
And, your job is equally important. Full time parenting is for warriors in my opinion. I am not sure how you all do it.
If he is drinking do not engage in his conversation. Keep it level and please try to remain neutral. Tomorrow will be a different day, and he may apologize for his words.
Ants will make their way into the home regardless of cleaning and what not. I have ants in my bathroom right now. They have found their way to the body wash. It is that time of year.
(((HUG)) to you.