Originally Posted by
earthsteps 
It means that the only time he feels comfy enough to tell me that I suck is when I slip and am intoxicated. That is bad. Has anyone ever been through this?
My husband is a controller. It's very hard to live with. I could write a book, but, eventually, you have to live your life for you. It's very, very hard, one day I will have the strength to end it, but for now I think a lot of relationships are habit.