RUN! RUN!!! AND KEEP RUNNING!!!!!
I'm still married to an unrepentant alcoholic, and have 4 kids in the mix.
I don't wish this on anyone.
Better still: What would you tell your youngest sister, or best friend, if you could look into her future and see that this is what it will be if you don't dump and run now?
I can guess what you would say. So take your own advice and move on.
If you don't, he's already promised you it won't get better, and no better recommendation has ever come from that horse's mouth.
If I'm harsh, it's that I'm still in this hell.
You can cut it clean and count your blessings its only you that you have to worry about.
Your in my prayers. I'm just lovin' the skillet!