Originally Posted by
Wes58 
I wanted to be that guy that hung in there and we made it out as a couple, but that is impossible.
Wes,
You sound like an incredibly compassionate, loving human being. Don't ever feel badly about yourself because of what someone else did or didn't do.
I have felt very much as you do about hanging in there, (in fact I still am) but if she isn't ready or willing to begin her recovery then there isn't anything you can do for her. You can however do for yourself and your children, and you should. There is no need for you or them to suffer any longer.
Go make your family happy and healthy!