Oh my goodness
This guy sounds like a walking disaster.....
I know you are hurting right now, but may I gently ask how you're benefiting by having him be a part of your life?
Based on what I read, I can't see anything good coming out of this...
I get the "feeling" that alcoholism is only one of the items on a huge list of serious problems....
He broke up with you?
Believe me, once you move through the fog, you will see the HUGE favor he has done for you.....
Sounds like he knows how to manipulate you....
(yes, I allowed myself to be manipulated also, so please know I am not judging you whatsoever....)
I would STRONGLY recommend that you cut him off completely....
Why should he be "allowed" to reap all the "benefits" of having you in his life?
FWB after being his girlfriend is an insult to you and as far as I am concerned, unacceptable....
Remember, he's not good enough for you....
Not the other way around....
I suspect that once you get healthier this guy won't have the same "appeal".....
Good for you for posting!
All the best,
Linda
