pravchaw, yes, I thought about you and your wife tonight. We are on the same path at the same time.
Lizwig, that is my concern too, serenity is priceless. AND it is all too new for us all not to slip into our past roles.
Treadingwaters, there is no Oxford house in our area, many on-line have spoken highly of this program. Sober living yes, we've discussed. He needs to drive the change. He feels (at this point in his young life) he is doing ok not using.
He went out to coffee this evening with a buddy and may have an opportunity to live very close to campus, which would be a win:win. We will talk more tomorrow night. I will keep you all posted!