A
n update
XH has changed this again & now wants to have joint custody with the children living with him for one week & me for one week.
I am not happy with this arrangement.
I feel this will be disruptive for the children when we are currently in a good routine.
Wow, this tells me he has no idea what the children need or want,
(stability) and it is about what he wants.
I really want get back to routine & stability for the kids & I think this is the best way to do it until such time as the agreement is challenged. At least everyone will know what they are doing for now.
Yes, this sounds like a good idea. Keep what you have going, no need to change.
You are doing a great job of staying calm and doing what has to be done.
Big hugs from me rosiepetal.
I swear the meth thing has me concerned too.
and if any abuse starts, you already know what to do, because you have
already done it!
call the police if he
ever gets abusive.
You
are strong, and you have your kids as your priority.
Hugs and strength to you rosiepetal.
Beth