"Has he done other violent things? Shoving, pushing, poking with finger as he yells, throwing things, punching things, etc?"
He has thrown things a few times when mad and a couple times at me. He has destroyed doors and other items in a fit of anger.
Does he try to isolate you from family and friends?
Sometimes, he does get mad when I talk to others sometimes because he thinks I will be talking about him.
He doesn't take responsibility for his behavior and believes he isn't doing anything wrong when his behavior is pointed out to him. He turns things around and accuses me of knowing that would upset him, and that I am just intentionally pushing his buttons according to him. Trying to have a productive conversation with him that resolves conflict and moves problems forward with him is impossible. He is definitely angry often.
Thanks everyone for the prayers and well wishes.