Thanks for support. Does he want to get sober- big question. I think he thinks he can control his drinking. He did for years and was very successful at his job,etc.
He knows I left him last year,that's when he went to rehab but he didn't find AA meetings worth much. Try a therapist who delt with alcoholics work for a while till he decided he could be an " ocasional " drinker. Everyone knows there is no such think for an alcoholic
Second rehab made him figure that out